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More About Me
Due to the number of fake profiles on this site, I will only answer from men near me in L.A. area who will be willing to give me his phone # so I can talk first, and if you have ANY kind of accent you need to tell me where you are from (and I will tell you why when we meet.) It does NOT have to be your cell or landline, can be google voice or text now which are US based, (IF sigh, you are paranoid about giving your real number, you probably shouldn't be contacting me) that I can call from a regular phone so it can't be a number I have to call only from an app (i.e. NOT a what's app number.) I want to meet soon, so if you need a lot of emailing back and forth or calls before we meet, I'm not your match.
I wrote another profile, which seems to have disappeared, so I had to create this one on here, it's a very frustrating, but its a long story, so since I don't want to rewrite it you will have to meet me to find out what I'm like. I actually AM on here to meet a real person, hopefully to have a romance. I like this site a lot, they don't keep trying to upgrade you for a fee service and has a lot of features) so that's why I have to do this. I haven't talked much about myself, so just MEET me, we don't have to do anything expensive, can take a walk or bike ride and get to know each other, I like to do a lot of active things. I am funny and intelligent and NICE so even if you choose never to meet again, you will at least enjoy your time with me. It IS VERY, very important that you read my BLOG as well as the FULL profile and captions on the photos, so you are not just picking me because you like my photo, and have something of substance to say when you contact me, besides. I do not check this often so be PATIENT if I do not respond right away.
More About My Match
First, if you are a little out of my age range, you can contact me, unlike the other sites, this one doesn't block it but only by a few years NOT decades I have a pretty big spread in the age range I desire. If you want to meet me again, do not "like" me if you don't make an effort to write me, I won't contact you.
PLEASE do NOT start with hello pretty, sexy, you are beautiful etc. etc. when you first contact me or just saying hi it just sounds like something you copy and paste and send to hundreds, I'll just ignore it. I WANT a person who doesn't just look at a photo, (and you should read ALL the captions if photos are more important than what I write in my profile and READ my blog before you contact me) and tell me what is interesting about me that made you want to contact me, say something of SUBSTANCE. I do not put what I am looking for in a tangible sense, because chances are the one you get smitten with has not of those traits, but I am especially attracted to men who participate who are altruistic and volunteer.
I do NOT want anybody who will say that they are new (usually because they are fake profiles) but wants a person who knows how to communicate and is somewhat cynical and jaded from being on here way too long (and am only half joking.) If your profile is only how you want to please a woman and says little about you, don't contact me as chances are you are fake. And please treat me with some courtesy I would treat you, if we make a date and you change your mind, then cancel not just blow me off, if after a date or long phone conversations you don't want to continue, let me know, not just ghost me.