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More About Me
I love laughing, would be great to be with someone that shares my sense of humor. I love movies and documentaries, watching them with company is always better. I love music and need someone that's tone deaf and can sing along with the wrong words confidently believing they're right. It doesn't matter what I write, no one takes anything written here seriously anyway.
If you're looking for normal please go to another profile. I'm a fun introvert with a bit of an extrovert streak, a creative, deep conversationalist with a well-developed sense of humor. I have a good IQ with an INTP personality, The Logician, analyst, evolving, striving for constant improvement. And I must say, I am so patient, very good at choosing my battles, some things just don't seem as urgent anymore. I haven't been inspired yet with all the words I'd want to write beside my interests as I've been busy, but when I am inspired, get ready, it will be good!!! If there is anything in particular, just ask if you want to know. I'm probably the coolest guy you'll ever meet... wait no.. most definitely I am! And I am always busy but it doesn't hurt to try.. :)
There are many cat-fishers about and I don't waste time on them. It’s nothing personal, unless our correspondence can get past ice breakers and painful small talk and then yes, it begins to feel more personal. Someone that really wants to know About Me will make an effort and actually respond to something I've written, not interested in idle chit-chat. I am real and come with all kinds of complications among some amazing attributes.
"Success is learning to deal with Plan B.. " ~Author unknown
More About My Match
The first thing I'd say is many women pretend this is real life and wait for men to make the first move no matter how good the profile is. Don't buy into it and don't be fanatic about religion, politics, sports and who writes first. Although a hastily typed 'Hey There!' or 'Hi how are you', leaves me wondering if you can spare more than a few words revealing nothing other than perhaps a lack of imagination. Please don't try and waste my time with senseless chit-chat. Meaningless conversation does not inspire me; when distance from reality seems sometimes more work than fun I will lose interest. If you haven't read me our correspondence will be extremely limited, if at all. And just to say, with all the scammers on-line you must prove you are real if you're just reading this after sending a chit-chat first message, good luck! For anyone paying attention, have a look at my interests, if we click, we click.
I might be interested in actually meeting if you're within reasonable distance. Though I don't want to stop anyone, if we are more than 100 miles apart it just doesn't seem realistic, sometimes halfway seems like too much distance, doesn't it? Honestly, more than 30 minutes from my zip code won't work long term unless you don’t mind traveling or relocating, just wanting something real. If you are interested don't make yourself too unavailable. Certainly would be most forthcoming when you reconsider importances, and for my curiosity please include the word ambivalent in your first message, for fun. Now this is important, to say another way, if you want to be a friend, have some intelligence and a sense of humor or you could ask about my vow of silence... S'il vous plaît.. :)
"This is because that is and if that is not then this cannot be.." ~Thich Nhat Hanh. Mindfulness