Evago: people from far away contacting me. It drives me mad that in settings for people searching for someone like me (not like the advanced settings for me searching for someone) I can't set the distance. As I said, supposedly I can search by mileage from my zip code FOR a person but even though it looks like they still show me men from further away, but can't control from what areas the men who are searching and contacting me, only thing I can restrict is the continent or area (not even by country like U.S. only), therefore I get a lot of emails from men who I most likely will never meet and it's discouraging.they contact every women on here , nothing wrong
I think the men are either very cheap (they don't want to spend the money courting the woman) or extravagant (willing to fly in or fly me out) or of course the fakers that you will never meet (what they usually are) (note to self) start another thread how to detect a faker. I am going to ask CS if they can put a setting so one can put a restriction as to how many miles from one's zip code that one would want men from to contact one.
This site is better than Plenty of Fish and OKCupid, they don't give you less options because you don't have a paid account like the others and has more features, but it has the MOST fake profiles, sometimes I think that they should charge a onetime lifetime fee of $5 just to create a profile. Most scammers I think won't be able to secure a credit or debit under a fake name but I know better than to suggest anything that will cost money in a forum!!! Yeah, I just know just delete but it's so psychologically depressing to get excited about getting mail and then see it's probably no one I can see plus you have to spend extra time deleting it!
Again, I know KNOW (so don't tell me in a scolding way) that I can contact CS directly but if anyone seconds that idea, I can tell them that many others feel that way also and they are more likely to implement that.
Tue Sep 15, 2020 3:23 PM CST