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And It's Forbidden in the Middle East too Which is what I prefer for the girl & What will protact her from lotta of things too ..That's the joy of Weddings ... It's nice to wait till that special Day .. Swan
Where i come from...is not forbidden. That's why the Special Day...has more than 50% not to become Disaster Day ! Good luck !
50% chances* ... Huh...tough morning !
Hi Xinchen! Please have a look on Moonlove blog, has many points of view!
Swan87oh.. same hugh1oke.. thank u very much... i have read Moonlove blog
Well there's one way of getting around that little obstacle....Don't get married.
@ BillyFatwas : HAHAH !!! You Made Me Laugh man !! nice one !!Swan
Have attended dozens of weddings here and there wasn't one where the bride wasn't pregnant - figure that one!After all feels like just another of those creepy-point-the-finger at-westerners blog.Given the fact that it's common for Asian men to sleep around even after being married I'm wondering why and for what those fine ladies have, or pretending, to have saved themselves.
I waited 2 years for a woman once that "was not ready"...Does that count?
either way is fine in the u.s. it is a personal choice to wait or not wait . most do not i think i don't really know .
Its the same in England, there are those who choose to wait but those who don't are not looked upon in a negative way. The vast majority do not wait, its been this way for a while now. I don't think either way is right or wrong, just a personal choice really.
I personally don't think that there is anything wrong with tradition.People in those country's a primed for that moment...But I would like to spend some quality time with my lady...Just to tune our self for that starting time... :roll
well if you get married when 18 yo there's nothing wrong, if you get married at 40 yo maybe it's best to start having a sex life before it's too late for having one...what ab if you dont get married at all ?no sex ?
Who tells you it is "forbidden"? Your Culture? Don't believe that - it is a fallacy perpetuated by religious idiots and close minded parents. If anyone, even my "culture", told me I was forbidden from one of life's most marvelous pleasures - I would laugh it off.... You are your own person, yes your family, parents, grandparents may believe in abstinence before marriage, but that may not be you..One most important fact to remember: Condoms are easier to change than DiapersPlease use birth control
No just before marriege and after marriege too asian women think sex is punishment
Sex is normal in the U.S. if you are drunk,, or if you are very hard up... Just kidding,,but some people take sex to seriously,if you like someone and the moment is right go for it.
thanks god in europe is sex before marriage NOT forbidden!!!!
i dnt thk its *forbidden* here in asia, its up 2urself, most ppl here in asia do sex or even 4more b4 get married, i thk thats a thraditional mind, but 4me, if u rly fall into sumone eles, then jst go 4it
In "Asian culture" isnt is just another one of those stupid "rules" made up by men, applying only to women ? The real question is why are women is these countries dumb enough to conform. Or is the answer to that because they get no education since they are regarded, as Napoleon remarked, "only machines for producing children"?