Good advice for dating, when getting to know someone, has always been "avoid.talking.about.politics". I guess we've proved that here.
But goals of this site have been to allow for free expression... along with free membership. Members will never understand just how difficult those goals have been. Regardless of whether you agree or disagree, many of the blog and forum political discussions here have been so interesting and we think, so important. But many, not so much...
The heightened emotions and isolation of a pandemic and divisive political unrest have made things more intense...causing tempers to rise, groups divide, constant bickering, pack attacks, name calling, complaints, battles over who is right, despair, and a hate-filled environment that has taken us waaaay far off from the original focus of this site.... which is DATING!.... flirting,, getting to know new people,, learning about people from other locations & cultures,, finding friends,, and a fun place to hangout when there is nothing else to do.
The site provides a lot of features and things to do. But first, this is a Dating Site!
Where's the fun.. and the flirting??
So we've decided it would be best to concentrate on more positive categories for discussion, and to no longer allow posting of threads and blogs about Politics and Covid issues.
This is to let you know that, for now, we will be removing any that are posted.
We are sorry to those of you who have come here wholly to post political topics, and hope you find an acceptable platform to do that. To those of you who wish to continue posting here, we hope that if you appreciate this site and want it not to go the way of several other sites lately, that you will cooperate with this new rule and find other topics to discuss... ones that will help a more friendly environment return to the forums and blogs.
Regards
Bentlee
Good call, long overdue,
Jan 9Marbsroo
Absolutely, well done!!!
Jan 9Dan_777
I agree entirely! Well done!
Jan 9SeaFairy
I believe that your decision will bring back many old members who left because of the heavy atmosphere and attract new ones who were reluctant to join in for the same reason!
Jan 9Bentlee
I believe many would like to know why this was not enacted long ago, when there were near daily negative blogs regarding Trump. Now that the electoral has past is this a reflection of CS stance on the sidelines or the frontlines, ...........?
Jan 9Inthecountryside
Another
as to me the site and blogs will be better without these types of blogs.
Jan 9Dan_777
I agree with Seafairy.
Jan 9Let's hope the old members will come back and make this place filled with fun and positive energy...again.
jac_the_gripper
I get the politics, the US clearly needs a hiatus to avoid further bloodshed.
Jan 9The covid not so much, it's been very helpful to share information and support at times.
Inthecountryside
Bentlee in your second post why did you you make it political then.
Jan 9CelticWitch64
About time....

Jan 9But better late than never
On a personal note, delighted to see no ban on religion
New year new beginnings..
Out with the old, in with the new
Good call CS with the Spring cleaning
SeaFairy
I agree with CelticWitch64.

Jan 9Better late than never!
Lukeon
And a photo-finish on religion in the 3rd place?
Jan 9CelticWitch64
Haha, loving the humour Luke

Jan 9time to get back to my own spring cleaning I started yesterday .. so see ya
Vierkaesehoch
Dear Cyber-scrutinizer. I've long appreciated the serious legal implications of the differences between merely hosting free speech, of all sorts, and exercising more of a selective and editorial role. We see social media platforms struggle with this daily.
Jan 9You've seen me suck up many times by praising all the features, and few downsides, VERY few, of CS. But I really don't digress here---I mean it. I really have tried the for (shameless) fee sites, and found none better, and most, certainly in the personality evaluations of low likely validity to task. Most are not helpful. And the behavioral health clinicians doing so could be expected to do much better. VERY much.
CS has helped me to make some friends on and off site, and yes, this is an introduction site, so I am grateful.
So good call all around, but I fear some losses. Politics, especially how stridently (clinically) pursued here, is another useful datum for some to seek partners, -more usually to avoid such. More informative than even excellent profiles, present company included. So, allowing political discourse, perhaps insisting on remaining on topic, without ad Hominem nonsense, as we have seen you do, might therefore be helpful. But then you'd have to staff such a role, and only the fabulously wealthy like me could stay on site. Also, it's no surprise how part of our core personalities (syndromes) are our politics. So a very few will be saddened, rarely to the core. As I've hinted in my own rants. They'll survive. There's more, but not worth mentioning.
Now then, how about personal pics of you and all the women in your family. Phone numbers are optional.
After all, CS is a dating site.
Thanks for all you have done for us. The fat little gnomoid illiterate jerk impotent runt. Every one's own Vierkaesehoch. Well, with a few exceptions. No doubt.
JimNastics
Terrific !
I'd also like to see religion added to the list.
Jan 9Bogart_1960
Oh, New Years Resolution !!!!! Fantastic!
Jan 9Its your house and your "rules". CS, you don't follow the rules you contracted with the users when they sign. You have allowed, supported and promoted extremism/sexism/intolerance/xenophobia content by both approving those threads/blogs and by banning who contests them.
To defend those extremist contents as “freedom of speech” is an aberration, as this type of speech shows the negative effects of that “freedom” and the reasons to be in conflict with it- freedom of speech doesn't mean there are no consequences of hate speech.
Limiting hateful/damaging speech is one of many duties that a serious online platform perform should perform.. You have supported them. (Wayback Machine - Internet Archive proves my point.)
Reality !
As Thomas Jefferson said. "Merchants have no country. The mere spot they stand on does not constitute so strong an attachment as that from which they draw their gains. " "dating sites" included.
freedom of expression and freedom of speech.
jac_the_gripper
I have deleted one of my recent blogs which had a political element with respect to behaviour patterns.
Jan 9It wasn't interesting, or valuable enough to leave it there to be used as a platform for inciting disharmony, division, or worse.
It's disappointing that it's come to this; I have enjoyed at least some of the political discussions, but perhaps it's time for a wee break.
Vierkaesehoch
Or perhaps a wee wee break, with good aim onto the syndromic politics.
Jan 9FargoFan
So what constitutes 'politics' in this context? Is it simply the site category of 'Politics' or does it include race homosexuality abortion euthanasia Iran North Korea China Saudi Arabia (for starters)? How about 'Opinionated'? Not so simple really is it? Do you perhaps mean 'anything vaguely controversial'? I suspect it is likely to be arbitrary. However, in line with other sites, you could segregate certain topics of discussions, but that implies consistent monitoring, the cost of which I venture is not going to be attractive ...
Jan 9Gibblemek
I guess an email to a few of the flirty girls and boys of the past who have left is in order to share the good news.
Jan 9This is rather splendid news.