- Blog Posted by Rainyman62
Rainyman62
66, Amman, Amman Jordan
- Aug 12, 2019 / 430 Views
Why the women in general don't prefer the poor man?
This's my third year on this website, I've corresponded a lot but got a response from a very little.
.I was not a happy man with my former marriage for vary reasons.......
But was & still looking to a suitable honest & sincere lady who I can live the rest of my life with her.
Only one lady responded me and she was 60 years old but still cannot afford an existence of a poor man in her home!! Others wants money in advance !!! As a fake and fraud attempts esp. from Africa and some from Asia!! I'm 66 and ready to leave to the right woman country as don't like to remain at my own country where poverty spreading rapidly with no serious efforts from the Government to stop it or make any solutions..I'm ready to work wherever the place is, the most important to me as not to borrow money I cannot repay...or to ask for help...in my country there's no welfare, and a lot of people like me in my age are suffering!!
I have no objection about the lady ethnic, color, religion ...just looking for a true honest woman nothing more...I'm not looking to the external beauty of course no..I'm looking for inner beauty ...the cleaned hearts which can content a true love and sympathy...that's my aim...I've wrote this blog after being totally frustrated & depressed ...can I find my dream soulmate on this website ? I hope so
.I was not a happy man with my former marriage for vary reasons.......
But was & still looking to a suitable honest & sincere lady who I can live the rest of my life with her.
Only one lady responded me and she was 60 years old but still cannot afford an existence of a poor man in her home!! Others wants money in advance !!! As a fake and fraud attempts esp. from Africa and some from Asia!! I'm 66 and ready to leave to the right woman country as don't like to remain at my own country where poverty spreading rapidly with no serious efforts from the Government to stop it or make any solutions..I'm ready to work wherever the place is, the most important to me as not to borrow money I cannot repay...or to ask for help...in my country there's no welfare, and a lot of people like me in my age are suffering!!
I have no objection about the lady ethnic, color, religion ...just looking for a true honest woman nothing more...I'm not looking to the external beauty of course no..I'm looking for inner beauty ...the cleaned hearts which can content a true love and sympathy...that's my aim...I've wrote this blog after being totally frustrated & depressed ...can I find my dream soulmate on this website ? I hope so
mollybaby
I am sorry you live in a poor country without access to social welfare, but you have to be realistic about your expectations.
Aug 12You are a 66 year old man looking for a 25-43 year old woman.
Even if a 25 year old woman wanted a 66 year old, it is doubtful they could afford to keep him.
Most people can just afford to keep themselves, not two people.
Ashleytuong1988
Hello mr Rain. I feel sad about your blog and feel the same with my situation too. My country is the same but no social welfare for poor or old people. Everyone is struggling for life now. And they even become criminal for living. And anywhere in the planet there are poor and homeless people need help.
I wish you will keep your head up, dont lose your hope and be optimistic about future. I hope one day you will find your true lady.
Im have been online in here more than 1 month. I got so few message also. And mostly from India, Africa, and many others country. But I finally found a USA man for me. He is not good looking and definately not rich also but he do have a pure kindred heart and carving for a family like me. So I decide to get along with him. I want to find a way out of my country find a new future for me and my little son in USA.
I wish you all the best and dont give up mr Rain
bigjb62
It's extremely difficult for a man here in the US to find a women once he's over 50 years old. Despite what women here may say, most of them are looking for a man who has more money then them and wants to take them on trips around the world.
Aug 13I'm sure a lot of women from other countries would see me as rich because I own a large house, but because I don't have a lot of disposable income it means very little here. It's a shame because I would love to be able to leave my house and anything else I own to a son or daughter when I pass away, but sadly it looks like it will just be left abandoned and the government will end up with it.
It's not surprising Ashley has found a man here who is willing to take here and her son into his home. There are plenty of lonely men here who want a women even if she is from another country.
It would be great to have a women like Ashley and give here and her son a home and all the love I have in my heart to give, but I'm afraid she would break my heart like my wife of 28 years did. It was very difficult for me as I loved her very much.
bigjb62
As far as why "women don't prefer the poor man?"
Aug 13It's a biological thing for women to look for a man they feel can provide for them and their children. For them that's the most important thing, so the more a man has to give the more desirable he looks to them.
It's also, at least in part why in wealthier countries the divorce rate is so high, as once a women sees herself as equal or higher in financial status as her husband, she no longer sees her husband as a good provider and loses respect for him.
Unfortunately because of your lack of money you may find it impossible to get out of your situation. I feel for you and thank God everyday I was born in the US. Not because I think I can live off of the government, but because of the freedom I have to be able to work hard and put away money for my retirement.
Despite what a lot of people think, most people living here work very hard for what they have and don't get anything free from the government, but pay a lot into the government in the form of taxes & fees.
Rainyman62
Thank You Mr. bigjb62 for all details you submitted by your enriched 2 comments, I think Yes you are completely and absolutely right for all outcome details regarding my status...but it means I used to die alone with nobody could hear me or feel sorry of me...Oooooooooooooh my God , just want your absolute contentment, guarding and lead me to the proper path
Aug 13WhatYouHadAndWha
OMG WHY THE BOLD TEXT???
Rainyman62
Does that bold text annoyed your eyesight ? Well this bold text just to encourage people to read it ...But you expressed your annoyance by your gazing sticker !!
...Don't like that...stop reading it's simple my good friend...
Aug 13WhatYouHadAndWha
That's the problem mate, you don't need bold text to encourage people reading it; you need clear and concise ideas.
Aug 13Otherwise it makes you seem like a simple scammer who wants to find a green card wife.
Just an advice ;)
Moelle
Maybe we are not working hard enough to enrich our country. Maybe we should look deeper at what sources we have and use them better. China depended on bamboo once. I know Jordan had quartz stones at least that is a start.
Aug 13Rainyman62
Dear Modelle,
Aug 13Thank you for your comment...actually and frankly Our country is much rich than you can imagine !
Yes indeed, we have multi minerals reservations..We are leading the world in Oily Boulder ..We have more than 175 billion ton and can produce petrol easily (The first in the world) in addition we have Natural Liquid Gas !! WE have a high volume of copper reservations. (4th worldwide).Uranium, Plutonium . Iron, Quartz Stone,Phosphates, Potash,Cement and many other sources and have highly qualified Labour Force ...But...Our rulers have no Real Political Will to initiate regarding any of these minerals !! We have, something incredible for tourism an opened Museum, with many completed ancient cities such like Petra (one of the" World New Seven Wonders", and have another completed Roman old city from the Era of the Roman Decapolis" ...etc.... There's something hidden out of our eyesight and many rumors apply here and there...The Government have one option to solve the critical situation which is "The Citizen pockets " to cover the Gov. expenses by high taxes until the whole market in all divisions public & private went to frozen status!!......That's the fact and yet the rulers yelling and asking for financial aid!!!...We don't feel secure and envy the surround states how their citizen living in high standards of living....The whole people are subject to be imprisoned to unknown track !!! That's Jordan to whom doesn't known.
Rainyman62
Mr. " WhatYouHadAndWha"..I think you are so young to judge people, if I want your"AMAZING" Green Card ...then I will do it when I was young not now...Now I'm 66 , so can you tell me your green card what will benefit me?...Of course nothing beside USA not the best for living, there's many other countries much better than USA...Canada better than America, Norway, Finland, Denmark, Singapore, Qatar , Australia, Austria all are much better High Standards of Living and much secured and safe countries, at least have no mass killing massacres against the migrants...So, please safe and spare your opinion to yourself as it's not fir to me and not my baby...Be reasonable by comments or be out of my sight,Thank you
Aug 13Jegas
Yo, rainy man, when you want to say something loud, use bold. you know what I mean dude?.
Aug 13Especially telling a guy off.. I’d be like.... LOOK DUDE, Get out of my sight!
Then if they don’t go away...scream... My eyes dude, go away, you are hurting my eyes. then say for some semantics fun, take your mean card and shove it up your... se your imagination, but after you learn bold text some more, we can mess with the italics, you know what I mean?
See USA is about free speech, and that means free to use whatever typeface you like...and emoticons...
Ok ok break it up, it’s just a little snide sarcasm, nothing to see here, move along... c mon, move it people.. hahaha
EXRED
Arso you saying all women gold diggers
Aug 14I live on my own pay my own way and if I met someone they would have to do the same. We are adults not children who need looking after.
Yep in this world some women and men for that matter are gold diggers, but as a general statement you are wrong and offensive.
Rainyman62
Miss EXRED...
Aug 14Who his hands into cold water not as another his hands into burning fire...However if I'm wrong I know who I am and what's exactly my aim...if I'm right then I kn ow that I've delivered the detailed good message...So U told me I'm wrong & I'm offensive without single evidence to prove your allege!! Kindly be polite enough and don't throw stones on others doors if you have a glass door!! Over
Rainyman62
Mr. Jegas,
Aug 14Thank you for your sarcastic comment...however it was nice no it was very nice to find someone who can really how to tackle issues in sarcasm but he aim to the truth...
Thank you dude once again , be well
WhatYouHadAndWha
there's many other countries much better than USA...Canada better than America, Norway, Finland, Denmark, Singapore, Qatar , Australia, Austria all are much better High Standards of Living and much secured and safe countriesYou got your priorities and goals listed right on there, right? ;)
Aug 14EXRED
I DO NOT HAVE A GLASS DOOR
if you think your right then you are for you that is. 
Aug 14Rainyman62
Your glass door means offending you truly...so , be away of me and don't annoy me with such unnecessary or useful opinions..either say good or keep quite ...that's it have a positive solution, enriched idea or good advice...fine I'm listening...but just blaming or sarcasm is not acceptable as I have a very sharp tongue....I'm not here as a circus clown ! OK Miss ? Just a normal human looking for new life...that's it
Aug 14EXRED
ADVICE you want,
well I have been googling for you to buy neurons, Astrocytes, and Microglia
Aug 15Cant find any
All the ladies I know have those, so doubt you will get a bite
Jegas
Well bro, I can say one thing, every women I fell in love with, I met when I was broke, definitely clears out the gold diggers, then because I’m resourceful, I blow up, apartment, cars, work, etc. oh... she is a cheater now eh? Later... down and out,msingle dad two kids, starting over, meet a woman, while broke, get up to six figures and a house within three years.. what? Give you a baby or now sex? What? That was t in the vows... jeesh... divorced, started over, down and out, got work, but just rooming with my cousin, boom, apartment, better work, more money, a place, cars, truck, marriage... lasted fourteen years this last go... now divorced, I’m starting over again...
Aug 15I want to meet one now, don’t work unless I have too, living on a shoestring, own land, still have my consulting skills, I take side work if and when I want too... my rent is paid, I have what I need, particularly my guitars and my hammock... lol. I’ve been a CNA, and been to school for nursing but defending myself from a bully got me an assault charge... so nursing is out until I beat the case ... but I make more money with computers, they just bore me but less lifting and dealing with nurse ratchet types.
Women look at men like an investment, I look at women the same way... not so much for gold digging but... to make sure their head is one straight and that they can live with or without me... from the start anyways... if I choose to work and let them stay home, that’s one thing, but if they expect that, they are mistaken, as I have to feel motivated... I don’t need very much, but I’ve been the father husband role family guy my whole life, women and children are expensive... food, gas, clothes, transportation, school, furniture, beds, TVs, electronics, and omg teenagers are a pain in the a**... but it’s worth it ...
Try maybe a local gal, forget country hopping... there’s got to be a lady around you somewhere that digs you close to home... but trying to find some woman with money to import you like a Russian mail order bride doesn’t seem very wise to me bro, it can happen, my uncle totally gold dug, totally found a rich women in the USA from India who had family in the Philippines, her family owns a major clothing line you heard of, he flew all over the world with her, got new teeth, hung out with royalty or something in the Philippines, owned and dined 7ntil his dying day... they were in love too... so good luck, hope you find what you are looking for...
E, I think I found what I wasn’t looking for this time... and it’s a little,scary... because we really hit it off and are still seeing each other... maybe I got lucky, maybe she is just shagging me... I don’t know... I’ve been shagged by hotties before, but I think she actually digs me... so my heart is going Potter patter a bit...
I wish us both luck ...